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October 29, 2009

My Good Friend Bobby Miller

Category: Kentucky – Steve – 1:20 pm

(left click all images to enlarge…..sometimes twice)

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I can’t help but call him Bobby, since that’s who he was when I met him, way back in high school. The truth is, I met his sister, Regina first, but that’s another story. She was drop dead gorgeous and a real hoot to be with. But so was her brother. Bobby and I had some serious adventures and there never has been a more honestly curious person than this exceedingly honest and modest man. Right now, Bobby’s battling some serious illness – with a hopeful treatment he’s going for in Nashville – so we keep our fingers crossed. I recently spent a couple days and a night with him and we reminisced about old times as well as questioning our place in Life and for the future. I really don’t believe I spent a bad day with this guy – ever.

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The log cabin he is posing in front of up there he built himself. It is one of those divine Thoreau-esque sorts of places that fits so well in its environment, it nearly appears to have grown there. What is most remarkable about his spread is that it is built on reclaimed strip mined property. Well, actually “reclaimed” is wrong – because it was abandoned back when strip mines would simply get mined out, than un-reclaimed, leaving humongous trenches behind as if some Mighty God had scratched his fingers in dirt leaving parallel lines of destruction behind. But the forest and Nature herself reclaimed what we see here, and it is actually quite something. Here’s a shot off Bobby’s porch:

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Here’s the man himself, tinkering with some gadget while I take bad pictures. But it also gives a glimpse into the interior of this – perhaps the single most livable, most comfortable home I ever walked into:

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The wood stove to the right in the above picture is the heating unit for the place. Owing to the thickness of the logs and their tight milling, the insulation properties are off the charts good. He burned one log while I was there – a 24 hour heating job. There is plenty of the “raw” look which authenticates the “do-it-yourself” aspect of the construction but it is decidedly not an amateur job – not by any stretch.

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The massive stonework fireplace was a chore and a half, according to Bob, and was done by a friend while Bobby lugged in a few tons worth of rock. This picture is a little dark, but the scale shows here, I think:

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Warm and inviting, Bobby crafted himself a pure luxurious and homey hideaway. His nearest neighbor is a mile away or so and he is surrounded by everything a Kentucky forest offers. That means moles, ticks, fleas and a bazillion nuisances, lol. He has some great tales of critters and dealing with their intrusiveness. He is constantly afflicted by stray cats who glom onto his place and create kittens. He has liked some of them immensely but soon realized the local hawk and owl population liked them more. A lot more. Bob has the greatest porch I ever saw:

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He landscapes his place marvelously, using tasteful groupings and stressing his lawn which adds so much domestication to this wild joint of his. Like many American men, Bobby is sort of fanatical about his grass. I always get a kick out of that, myself, having installed so dang many of them personally. To me owning a lawn is like acquiring a pet – way too much trouble! But these guys love them and, I admit, I can see why. Besides, it’s Kentucky, not Reno, Nevada and it is the very home of Bluegrass.

Here are some looks from the road that leads to his place, featuring views of these old strip mines whose lakes now contain fish – no matter how difficult it is to actually get to the water from some slope of about 70 impossible-to-climb degrees:

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It’s now just a little bit of Paradise for a very deserving person and one whom I plan on seeing a lot more of. I like this great sweatshirt he’s wearing, sporting the cool look of my favorite town:

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My personal feeling is that if I deserve a friend like Bobby Miller, I am a very blessed man. A little dumb, come to think of it, but then – that’s not a crime yet. Hell, look at our politicians!

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Very, very cool place.

10 Comments »

  1. Beautiful place! I hope Bobby likes Israelis.

    Comment by israelimom — October 29, 2009 @ 1:53 pm

  2. I hope the outcome of Bobby’s treatment is more than hoped for and the side effects are minimal. He’s fortunate to have a friend who cares enough to tell us.

    Comment by Nell Jean — October 29, 2009 @ 2:53 pm

  3. It sure looks like Paradise to me — all the best to your friend.

    Comment by Nancy Bond — October 29, 2009 @ 4:49 pm

  4. LOL, Bobby likes Israeli’s just fine. And he knows your intentions, Annette! He has plenty of room for your whole family – in fact, the kids can scream til their heart’s content! No one will hear.

    Thank you, too, Nell Jean. I also hope for the best. He’s a strong guy with a good support system – as you have seen. His view is interesting – he talks wryly about going to see what the “next poison they want to give me” will do.

    Comment by Steve — October 29, 2009 @ 4:49 pm

  5. Hi Nancy – and yes, it as close to Paradise as you can get.

    Comment by Steve — October 29, 2009 @ 4:51 pm

  6. Wow, this is amazing… I would love to live in a place like that, so comforting and close to nature!!

    thanks for the article!

    H

    Comment by Henry — October 31, 2009 @ 11:58 am

  7. I’d almost hate to call the place a cabin–It’s definitely built better than most of our city housing! Love the location, too. I hope the nature all around helps with what he’ll have to be dealing with. It all looks like it’d be a big comfort.

    Comment by lostlandscape(James) — November 2, 2009 @ 12:56 am

  8. James, I’m due to hear about things today or tomorrow. That place is indeed soothing and soulful for him. Needless to say, he has loved it from the get go. He built it 20 years ago or so. We had some fun talking about the “critter” population – wow – he gets amazing traffic out there, lol.

    Comment by Steve — November 2, 2009 @ 10:00 am

  9. Steve,
    This is a wonderful post, so upbeat despite Bobby’s trials with health problems. He’s lucky to have your special, friendship. But then, it seems obvious that you deserve each other. Guess that’s what true… long-term friendship is all about, and it’s a rare and wonderful thing.
    Alice

    Comment by Alice Joyce — November 2, 2009 @ 9:30 pm

  10. Thanks, Alice. You’ll have to ask him if it’s worth it, I guess. All I know is, he has provided me with laughs together that made my stomach hurt. That’s what I find religious, lol.

    Comment by Steve — November 5, 2009 @ 12:24 pm

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